人間関係を傷つける／hurt
the relationship
貸し手／lender
借り手／borrower
Lending
or borrowing money from friends can hurt the relationship.
If a friend borrows money and pays it back then everything
will be fine. If they do not pay it back, the lender
may become angry and resentful of the borrower. In
turn, the borrower may avoid the lender out of fear
or shame. Even if the lender does not get angry, the
borrower may still feel insecure until the debt is
repaid. Both parties may forget their friendship and
think of the unpaid debt. When a friend asks to borrow
money from me, I do not lend but give freely.（101words）
